Stir Fried Banana Blossoms

Name: Stir Fried Banana Blossoms
Ingredients: 1 : banana blossom; ½ cup : shredded coconut; ½ cup : roasted desi chickpeas or peanuts or shrimps (if you are using it); 1 : potato (medium, peeled and cubed into small bite size); 1 or 2 bay leaf; 1 cinnamon sticks; 2-3 green cardamom; 3-4 cloves; 1 tsp : cumin powder; A pinch of chilli powder; A pinch of turmeric powder; Salt to taste; 1 tbsp : sugar (or less according to taste); 2 tbsp : ghee (clarified butter); Turmeric water or lemon to remove the bitterness