Neelys Fried Zucchini

Name: Neely's Fried Zucchini
Ingredients: Peanut oil, for frying; 3 large zucchini, cut into 1/2-inch rounds; 1/2 cup all-purpose flour; 1 1/2 cups panko bread crumbs; 1/4 cup finely grated Parmesan; 2 tablespoons finely chopped fresh parsley leaves; 1/2 teaspoon red pepper flakes; Salt and freshly ground black pepper; 3 eggs, lightly beaten; 1/4 cup water; 1 cup sour cream; 2 tablespoons buttermilk; 1 medium shallot, finely chopped; 1 tablespoon chopped chives; 1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper; Dash hot sauce; Kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper