Asparagus Souffle Even Kids Love

Name: Asparagus Souffle Even Kids Love
Ingredients: 1½ pounds asparagus; ⅛ teaspoon salt (to taste); 3 large eggs; ½ small garlic clove (optional) (to taste); 1 pinch salt (for boiling water); 4 tablespoons butter (cow or goat); 4 tablespoons all-purpose flour; 1½ cups whole milk (cow or goat); ½ cup or less grated Parmesan cheese (optional) ( to taste); ¼ teaspoon plus ⅛ teaspoon salt; ⅛ teaspoon dry powdered sage (optional); ⅛ teaspoon dry powdered fennel (optional); 1/16 teaspoon black pepper; ½ teaspoon dried dill (optional) ( to taste); 6 large egg whites; Pinch salt